If the LCD is blank, you're already having troubles way before the upload. So I guess it's time to start over. We're going to do this step-by-step and I'm sure we'll get it fixed :) The easiest way to do this would be for you to drop by the chat. Real-time chat is a lot faster at times ;)
1) Did you check all the voltages? If not, remove all ICs and do that. Report back.